I work at a clothing store for men. I have to deal with and measure a great number of people on a daily basis. I can generally size a man up by sight within 2 inches for pants and jackets, 1/2 an inch for dress shirts. I work in a multi-ethnic part of the world … Continue reading What’s my Size?
"To thine own self be true." You've definitely heard of this famous Shakespeare quote before. It's a great quote that I love to use and sometimes overuse. Have you ever wondered what does it really mean, especially in relation to you and your life? The Mask You Wear Everyone wears a mask. What form that … Continue reading Hiding in Plain Sight
My story I was a very angry and violent child. I got so many detentions for fighting, not doing homework or papers, for talking back that my parents would celebrate when I didn't get into trouble. There came a point that my own patriarch had had enough. He said to me "If you don't calm … Continue reading Nice Guys or Why You Shouldn’t Be One
Life is confusing. Things are changing at an accelerating rate and it is hard for most of us to keep track of what those changes are. Today I hope to clarify my beliefs on manhood, being male and masculinity. Let’s start with what “male” means before explaining “man” and ending with “masculinity”. Male is a … Continue reading Male, Man, Masculinity
I thought it would be a good idea to let you all know a bit more about me. I tend to be secretive and I don't usually talk about my self at length so please excuse the disjointed nature of this particular post. I am a bisexual male. I am attracted above all to femininity … Continue reading Some (Vanilla) Things About Myself